Holier Than Who?
Okay, there is a lot of discussion going on right now about Prop 8 and the other anti gay marriage amendments that passed during this recent election. Personally, I look at a law built to institutionalize bigotry, legislate morality, and categorically deny rights to a whole group of people because we think they’re sub-norm seems awfully familiar. Don’t we all look back at Plessey vs. Ferguson now and shudder? "Separate but equal" and all the Jim Crow crap… it seems like the product of an ignorant and backward time to which we’d rather not return, doesn’t it? But of course, not everyone feels that way. So a friend of mine posted a note on facebook asking for people to explain Prop 8 to her, because she just couldn’t wrap her brain around it. Of course… MANY impassioned responses. Several of which came from the holier-than-thou Christian quoting Leviticus and choosing to ignore those inconvenient parts of the Bible about "love thy neighbor" and "glass houses" and whatnot. So, I weighed in with my usual thought that, in general, it seems to me that most religions are, at their root, about love. Judgment will come, and it’s not really our responsibility. Someone else will take care of that. So can’t we just love each other and let the rest come out in the wash? At which point, this guy weighed in with what I think might be the saddest thing I have ever heard.
He said he has every right to judge because he’s Christian. He said that Christians are allowed to judge sinners. I was completely floored. I have never heard someone stand up and say, "you know, actually, I can judge you because I am better than you." As far as I’m concerned, you can disagree with me ’til the cows come home, but judging me is just plain not your job. We’re all in this glass house together.
I disagree with the general concept of organized religion. I have been known to rant and rave on the subject. I think the good messages at the center tend to get distorted and ruined by the people who run them. But I do try to give the benefit of the doubt in terms of that central message - that most religion, and most religious people are, at their core, trying to build from something good. But this person really thinks it is his God-given right to look at someone else and say, "SINNER."
If that’s Christianity… or really any religion… count me out.
